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For the last two, sex certainly hasn't been the same.
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We have sex once ever five months. I seem to never be in the mood and when we finally do it, it doesn't last long and she says it feels like I'm faking it. It never used to be this way. I want to satisfy her and feel satisfied.
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She's cheated on me before because of this. I don't want her lesboan to any other female for something I'm incapable of giving her. You are not alone.
Many people reading your letter will identify with your situation. So a more accurate picture is that lesbian relationships vary.
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In some sex never stops being important. In others loving companionship takes priority.
Some lesbians Women seeking hot sex Laughlin happily asexual. I appreciate your girlfriend may feel unhappy and frustrated with the situation lonb it is, but are there things she could do to help you feel more nurtured, secure or sexual? Could any of her actions or behaviours be contributing to your lack of desire? Is it easy to talk about this? You may want to consider lesbian-friendly counselling for yourself or with your girlfriend via Rainbow Couch or Pink Practice Sometimes in relationships people lack desire because of abuse.
In such cases Broken Rainbow can help. Things you can do for yourself Identifying and tackling additional problems or stressors These could be affecting your confidence and desire outside of your relationship and need attention for example additional mental or physical health problems, work or fpr related issues etc.
Can you both widen your circle of friends and consider hobbies or volunteering to build confidence Lookung reduce codependency? Now they are presented as abnormal for NOT having enough sex with women.
Some women find writing a diary where they note feelings of desire — however fleeting — reminds them they are sexual beings. Other women find masturbation perhaps using sex toys allows them to experience pleasure without additional partner pressures.
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Alternatively it may highlight deeper sexual issues in which case your GP may be able to refer you to a psychosexual therapist llong on the NHS but with limited availability in some areas. Or you may decide that you are happy with the amount of sex you are having currently. Considering ways to give and get affection may also foster an environment where both of you might feel wanted.
I hope together you can work out what you both want from your relationship, remembering that the lack of sex may be a symptom of other issues you need to address rather than something you just have to make yourself do more. Follow her on Twitter drpetra. your sex and relationships queries to: agony.